Naijaqueen.com shares 9 ways to get your groove back.
1. Exercise: Exercising can be a huge confident booster. When you feel good about your body, you get more in tune with your sexuality.
2. Embrace erotica: If pornography is not your thing, have you tried reading some erotica? Most women find this the best way to ignite their libido. Find the type that works for you, the internet is full of stories that are just perfect to spike your mood.
3. Sext: Sometimes, being apart from your partner and sending naughty texts could be the best way to make him more attractive to you again. It does not get any better than him telling you all the dirty things he wants to do with your body.
4. Get touchy: If you have been with the same partner for a long time, you tend to let affection fall by the wayside. This is usually the first step to making your partner look less sexual to you. Make sure you reconnect with touch, kisses and hugs during the day. When you do more of these without feeling pressured for sex, you will find that your body will begin to respond.
5. Change pills: One of the side effects of some contraceptive pills is that you have a lower sex drive. If you can trace the beginning of your lower libido to when you started a pill, then this could be the culprit. See your doctor to know if you can make some changes, or get advice on how to proceed.
6. What you eat: Foods such as eggs, oyster, chocolate, wine, and fruits usually increase the sex drives of a lot of women.
7. De-stress: When you are always stressed out and worried, you will find that your sex life dwindles. The solution is to find ways to de-stress. Take a break, meditate, try not to worry so much or find a hobby that relaxes you.
8. Masturbate: Sometimes, your libido can take a hit because you have gotten out of tune with your body. If this is the case, masturbating could help. Just be sure to start slow and let things build. This way, you are not worried about what your partner will think, you get to relax knowing if it's not working, you can always stop.
9. Initiate sex: This could seem unimaginable if you suffer from low sex drive, but there is an arousing feeling that comes with claiming your man. Most women get turned on when they approach their man, tell him what to do and take what they want. They feel in control and confident in knowing it is solely their decision.
